Women Want To Love And To Be Loved
Apart from nurturing, there is hardly a trait more universal among women than their desire to love and be loved.</p>
This is dues in part to women’s strong predisposition to nurture and to that fact that they have been raised by their mothers to express and receive closeness both physically through touching , holding, and cuddling and emotionally through sharing feelings, activities, and thoughts.</p>
Love combines the physical and emotional nurturing into one, creating a bonding and blending with the beloved other whom most women value above nearly everything else in their lives.</p>
Unlike men, who have been forced to develop an armor of separation and distance and an emotional anesthetic, women have had to develop neither. Instead, women remain open to love and closeness because they have never had to lose their emotional identification and attachment to their mothers, as boys are forced to do. They don’t have to learn to anesthetize their emotions against the retching experience of detaching from mother or in preparation for war, as do boys. Instead a girl is permitted to retain, in essence, a psychological umbilical cord that encourages her to seek and give love her whole life long.</p>
Girl babies retain and develop this attachment by sharing in their mother’s activities from a very early age. It is common, for instance, for a little girl to be Mommy’s little helper, mimicking her mother’s activities and, as she grows older, taking on more and more of a mothering role.</p>
This lifelong connection creates in women a basic security, a powerful drive to bond and merge, and the drive to love and be loved in return remains with a woman more deeply than for a man. And it is this deep security and ability to give care, love, and nurture that plays such a large role in attracting men to women. She is the bridge to love and intimacy that for so much of history has been closed to him by his need to be ready for combat.</p>
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Apart from nurturing, there is hardly a trait more universal among women than their desire to love and be loved.</p>
This is dues in part to women’s strong predisposition to nurture and to that fact that they have been raised by their mothers to express and receive closeness both physically through touching , holding, and cuddling and emotionally through sharing feelings, activities, and thoughts.</p>
Love combines the physical and emotional nurturing into one, creating a bonding and blending with the beloved other whom most women value above nearly everything else in their lives.</p>
Unlike men, who have been forced to develop an armor of separation and distance and an emotional anesthetic, women have had to develop neither. Instead, women remain open to love and closeness because they have never had to lose their emotional identification and attachment to their mothers, as boys are forced to do. They don’t have to learn to anesthetize their emotions against the retching experience of detaching from mother or in preparation for war, as do boys. Instead a girl is permitted to retain, in essence, a psychological umbilical cord that encourages her to seek and give love her whole life long.</p>
Girl babies retain and develop this attachment by sharing in their mother’s activities from a very early age. It is common, for instance, for a little girl to be Mommy’s little helper, mimicking her mother’s activities and, as she grows older, taking on more and more of a mothering role.</p>
This lifelong connection creates in women a basic security, a powerful drive to bond and merge, and the drive to love and be loved in return remains with a woman more deeply than for a man. And it is this deep security and ability to give care, love, and nurture that plays such a large role in attracting men to women. She is the bridge to love and intimacy that for so much of history has been closed to him by his need to be ready for combat.</p>
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