The Couple You Fell In Love With
When you fall in love, you actually fall in love with three things. You fall in love with the other person, the way he looks and acts and smells and talks all the hidings about him that seem wonderful.</p>
You also fall in love with yourself, a special way you feel inside. Of course it is the way the other person makes you feel. You feel smarter, wiser, better looking, more generous, more powerful, more interesting all the things you want to feel about yourself.</p>
And you fall in love with a couple, two people, you and your
. You fall in love with the way these two people are together. Their style cute or cool or cuddly. The kinds of things they do together. The ways they give each other space or stay close. The roles they play for each other in the future they have together. It is this last thing, the couple you fell in love with when you fell in love with your partner, that can serve as a love builder now.</p>
The person you fell in love with a couple. But you probably didn’t talk about it very much. A lot of it was unconscious. A lot of the things you did talk about were the things you found easiest to agree about. You would never be one of those couples, for example, who sat in a restaurant together for a whole meal without exchanging a single word. You would be really cool parents, but you would never let your kids get away with some of the stuff you got away with.</p>
That couple the two of you fell in love with is still alive and well. When a relationship is not too bad to stay in, when it is not too late to save it from the clutches of the love killers, that couple you fell in love with and wanted to be like is still very much a part of who you are now. You need to go back to your roots and remember the things that brought you together. Instead of talking about how different you are now, talk about how similar you were then.</p>
And this process of finding similarities, starting with the couple you fell in love with, is one of the best ways to recover from differences sickness. Think of it like this. Suppose you bridges none of your differences but instead discovered many new ways you were similar. Your sense of being “too different” would fade. You can always use the ten best solutions for bridging differences. but let the couple you fell in love with help you find your similarities.</p>
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When you fall in love, you actually fall in love with three things. You fall in love with the other person, the way he looks and acts and smells and talks all the hidings about him that seem wonderful.</p>
You also fall in love with yourself, a special way you feel inside. Of course it is the way the other person makes you feel. You feel smarter, wiser, better looking, more generous, more powerful, more interesting all the things you want to feel about yourself.</p>
And you fall in love with a couple, two people, you and your
The person you fell in love with a couple. But you probably didn’t talk about it very much. A lot of it was unconscious. A lot of the things you did talk about were the things you found easiest to agree about. You would never be one of those couples, for example, who sat in a restaurant together for a whole meal without exchanging a single word. You would be really cool parents, but you would never let your kids get away with some of the stuff you got away with.</p>
That couple the two of you fell in love with is still alive and well. When a relationship is not too bad to stay in, when it is not too late to save it from the clutches of the love killers, that couple you fell in love with and wanted to be like is still very much a part of who you are now. You need to go back to your roots and remember the things that brought you together. Instead of talking about how different you are now, talk about how similar you were then.</p>
And this process of finding similarities, starting with the couple you fell in love with, is one of the best ways to recover from differences sickness. Think of it like this. Suppose you bridges none of your differences but instead discovered many new ways you were similar. Your sense of being “too different” would fade. You can always use the ten best solutions for bridging differences. but let the couple you fell in love with help you find your similarities.</p>
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