Show Up Even If You Dont Feel like It
Some women are lucky. They marry their high school or college sweetheart at twenty-two and never have to deal with dating again. But what if that’s not your story and the only man in your life is your dry cleaner? You had some relationships in the past but they didn’t work out because you didn’t know what to do.</p>
There are many women in your situation. They simply never meet men. Years go by without a Saturday night date. They spent New Year’s Eve with girlfriends, Chinese take out, or a rented video. If this is you, realize that you may not meet Mr. Right naturally and that you therefore must take social actions immediately even if you don’t want to.
Obviously, you can’t do The rules if there are no men in your life. Don’t despair – instead, focus on doing something -anything – to increase your chances of meeting men. A good rule to start is to carry out one social action per week, no matter what! Here are some suggestions:</p>
Plan to go to a singles party this weekend, get involved in a church, social event, do charity work or work on a political campaign where you might meet men, book a trip to Club Med, place a personal ad, join a dating service, take a share in ski house, summer beach house, play tennis, jog around the park in your neighborhood, anything! You don’t have to dance well, or jog very far. You just have to plan these activities, show up, do your best, and smile.</p>
Perhaps you are thinking,”But I don’t have anyone to go with”. Then you must go alone! Of course, it would be great to have friends to go with, but if you don’t have one, thar’s no excuse to sit at home. Many women we know actually pushed themselves to go alone to a party or social affair when they absolutely didn’t want to go, and those were the very nights they met their husbands.</p>
If you keep waiting for someone to go with, a convenient ride to the event, or perfect weather, you might never go. How serious are you about meeting someone if you won’t go by yourself? Sometimes it’s actually better to go alone because you’re on your own time schedule and some men might find you easier to approach.</p>
Besides, you must learn to accept that, as an adult, you can’t always rely on a friend to do things with. There are many tasks in life that have to be done alone, such as going on job interviews or going to the dentist. Sometimes you have to think about social activities as work – you have to do them regardless of how you feel.</p>
Motivating yourself to get off the couch, dress, put on makeup, and show up won’t be easy, but it must be done. Don’t think,” But I’m not comfortable” at this or that. Go anyway!</p>
We know it’s not always comfortable to be single in social gatherings, but then again, many things we tell you are not always comfortable. You’re also probably worrying that the kind of men you’re attracted to won’t come up to you, or that you’ll be frustrated because you can’t approach them since you’re too busy. You may not feel that you will have a good time and that you might have had more fun reading a book in bed, but you’ll never meet anyone that way, so you have to go!</p>
Even if you don’t meet Mr.Right, going out-whether it be to an “in” restaurant, museum, party-is good for you. It’s a chance to meet new people, broaden your horizons, learn to be at ease in crowds.
Tell a friend that you’re going to take one social action this week and make sure you stick to it!</p>
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Some women are lucky. They marry their high school or college sweetheart at twenty-two and never have to deal with dating again. But what if that’s not your story and the only man in your life is your dry cleaner? You had some relationships in the past but they didn’t work out because you didn’t know what to do.</p>
There are many women in your situation. They simply never meet men. Years go by without a Saturday night date. They spent New Year’s Eve with girlfriends, Chinese take out, or a rented video. If this is you, realize that you may not meet Mr. Right naturally and that you therefore must take social actions immediately even if you don’t want to.
Obviously, you can’t do The rules if there are no men in your life. Don’t despair – instead, focus on doing something -anything – to increase your chances of meeting men. A good rule to start is to carry out one social action per week, no matter what! Here are some suggestions:</p>
Plan to go to a singles party this weekend, get involved in a church, social event, do charity work or work on a political campaign where you might meet men, book a trip to Club Med, place a personal ad, join a dating service, take a share in ski house, summer beach house, play tennis, jog around the park in your neighborhood, anything! You don’t have to dance well, or jog very far. You just have to plan these activities, show up, do your best, and smile.</p>
Perhaps you are thinking,”But I don’t have anyone to go with”. Then you must go alone! Of course, it would be great to have friends to go with, but if you don’t have one, thar’s no excuse to sit at home. Many women we know actually pushed themselves to go alone to a party or social affair when they absolutely didn’t want to go, and those were the very nights they met their husbands.</p>
If you keep waiting for someone to go with, a convenient ride to the event, or perfect weather, you might never go. How serious are you about meeting someone if you won’t go by yourself? Sometimes it’s actually better to go alone because you’re on your own time schedule and some men might find you easier to approach.</p>
Besides, you must learn to accept that, as an adult, you can’t always rely on a friend to do things with. There are many tasks in life that have to be done alone, such as going on job interviews or going to the dentist. Sometimes you have to think about social activities as work – you have to do them regardless of how you feel.</p>
Motivating yourself to get off the couch, dress, put on makeup, and show up won’t be easy, but it must be done. Don’t think,” But I’m not comfortable” at this or that. Go anyway!</p>
We know it’s not always comfortable to be single in social gatherings, but then again, many things we tell you are not always comfortable. You’re also probably worrying that the kind of men you’re attracted to won’t come up to you, or that you’ll be frustrated because you can’t approach them since you’re too busy. You may not feel that you will have a good time and that you might have had more fun reading a book in bed, but you’ll never meet anyone that way, so you have to go!</p>
Even if you don’t meet Mr.Right, going out-whether it be to an “in” restaurant, museum, party-is good for you. It’s a chance to meet new people, broaden your horizons, learn to be at ease in crowds.
Tell a friend that you’re going to take one social action this week and make sure you stick to it!</p>
Ky artikull eshte marre nga: http://www.datingcare.com/?p=176. Per me shume artikuj te ngjashem vizitoni: http://www.datingcare.com/?p=176