Affair Proof Your Relationship
When you see your mate’s qualities as only negative, you risk the chance that someone else will see those same qualities as positive.If your mate rarely gets a compliments from you, he or she won’t feel good in your presence. Eventually your mate may meet someone who sees the good in him or her and verbalizes it. Your mate will like how this feels, and before you know it, the stage is set for an affair.</p>
I remember one night someone after class stayed to speak with me. She was distraught because her fiance had broken their engagement. When i asked her what happened, she explained that during their courtship he would worked in the corporate world, but six months ago their wedding date, he decided to quit the corporate world and go back to school to get his teaching credential.</p>
She tried everything she could to convenience him not to leave the business world. She ended up telling him she though he was crazy, that he would never make enough money teaching. He went back to school in spite of her protests, and in one of his classes he met a woman who was studying for the same degree he was.</p>
This woman told him she admired him for quiting the business rat race. She pumped him up and gave him daily encouragement. A month before he was supposed to marry her, he called off the engagement. He had fallen in love with his classmate.</p>
Would this story have turned out differently if she had been on her fiance’s team. Absolutely. If she had verbalized her faith in him and complimented him on his courage and perseverance, he wouldn’t have needed someone else to make him feel good.</p>
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When you see your mate’s qualities as only negative, you risk the chance that someone else will see those same qualities as positive.If your mate rarely gets a compliments from you, he or she won’t feel good in your presence. Eventually your mate may meet someone who sees the good in him or her and verbalizes it. Your mate will like how this feels, and before you know it, the stage is set for an affair.</p>
I remember one night someone after class stayed to speak with me. She was distraught because her fiance had broken their engagement. When i asked her what happened, she explained that during their courtship he would worked in the corporate world, but six months ago their wedding date, he decided to quit the corporate world and go back to school to get his teaching credential.</p>
She tried everything she could to convenience him not to leave the business world. She ended up telling him she though he was crazy, that he would never make enough money teaching. He went back to school in spite of her protests, and in one of his classes he met a woman who was studying for the same degree he was.</p>
This woman told him she admired him for quiting the business rat race. She pumped him up and gave him daily encouragement. A month before he was supposed to marry her, he called off the engagement. He had fallen in love with his classmate.</p>
Would this story have turned out differently if she had been on her fiance’s team. Absolutely. If she had verbalized her faith in him and complimented him on his courage and perseverance, he wouldn’t have needed someone else to make him feel good.</p>
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