What is love?
Love is a sincere concern for a person’s spiritual, physical, and emotional needs, including your own. An important aspect of love is that you can’t give away what you don’t have. Many people are burdened with poor self esteem and fear that loving someone else is impossible if they can’t even lose themselves.</p>
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As adults, we crave love. As abused adults, living in the illusion of love often leads being hurt. When we have been disappointed, wounded, or frequently abandoned, our concept of love and loving relationships becomes damaged or disorted and we often feel that love eludes us. Maintaining a continunous, healthy interaction can seem impossible to those who have lived in the shadow of abuse. In an effort to shield a wounded soul, many becomes an emotional cynic, proffesing to no longer believe in the concept of love, and insulate yourself from the next potential source of hurt. The attitude “I can’t find love, I can’t get love, and even if i do find it, it won’t last for long” is what is called Intimacy Defense Mechanism.</p>
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Love begins at home and starts with a healthy sense of self. It is a process, not an event. Love isn’t a person. It is a dream and desire to have passion and to be passionate. It is the security of a hug that is always there, much like the unconditional love of an old family pet that’s always available. Love is familiar to some, alien to others. Just as you must practice being a friend to have a friend, you must practice loving yourself before you can love others. Many who have previously experienced a betrayal and fear must learn to accept love from a healthy source. Victims, unfortunately, don’t feel worthy of love, but they are worthy. YOU ARE WORTHY!</p>
Ps. To my friend N.M</p>
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As adults, we crave love. As abused adults, living in the illusion of love often leads being hurt. When we have been disappointed, wounded, or frequently abandoned, our concept of love and loving relationships becomes damaged or disorted and we often feel that love eludes us. Maintaining a continunous, healthy interaction can seem impossible to those who have lived in the shadow of abuse. In an effort to shield a wounded soul, many becomes an emotional cynic, proffesing to no longer believe in the concept of love, and insulate yourself from the next potential source of hurt. The attitude “I can’t find love, I can’t get love, and even if i do find it, it won’t last for long” is what is called Intimacy Defense Mechanism.</p>
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Love begins at home and starts with a healthy sense of self. It is a process, not an event. Love isn’t a person. It is a dream and desire to have passion and to be passionate. It is the security of a hug that is always there, much like the unconditional love of an old family pet that’s always available. Love is familiar to some, alien to others. Just as you must practice being a friend to have a friend, you must practice loving yourself before you can love others. Many who have previously experienced a betrayal and fear must learn to accept love from a healthy source. Victims, unfortunately, don’t feel worthy of love, but they are worthy. YOU ARE WORTHY!</p>
Ps. To my friend N.M</p>
Ky artikull eshte marre nga: http://datingcare.com/?p=28. Per me shume artikuj te ngjashem vizitoni: http://datingcare.com/?p=28